Hello Again, Here's my summary of Chapter 4 of Stay or Leave? I hope it makes you think, whatever your indecision may be about: staying or leaving work, home, your relationship, the country and so on...?! Bev
Chapter 4: Stop revving your engine with your foot on the brake
Chapter 4 confronts you with the reality of your situation: Have you convinced yourself that you’re merely hovering in limbo as if at a sunny crossroads, eating a picnic, whilst weighing up the pros and cons of which path to take – stay or go? Or, are you in reality in a situation of extreme conflict; the conflict between moving and not moving?
In which case, your situation is more like an aircraft on a short runway where the pilot must rev the engine whilst keeping one foot firmly on the break. This would be completely senseless without the clear intention, when the right moment came, to release the brakes and take off. Otherwise the aircraft would shake itself to pieces. So rather than hovering in limbo, are you in fact shaking yourself to pieces, tearing yourself apart?
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